Which of the following represents the reciprocal relationship phase of Bowlby's phases of attachment?

A) When startled, Hava looks to her father for cues on how to react.
B) Hava cries when being held by her grandpa and reaches for her mother.
C) When playing, Hava smiles at a new friend at daycare.
D) Hava prefers to play with her father instead of her mother.

In the reciprocal relationship phase of Bowlby's phases of attachment, children begin to understand their parents' feelings, goals, and motives, which leads to a more mutual relationship. They use their parents as a secure base from which to explore the world and seek them for comfort and safety in times of need. When startled, looking to a parent for cues on how to react, as described in option A, is indicative of this phase, where the child is actively engaging in a reciprocal relationship with the caregiver, seeking guidance and reassurance.